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LA Guisti posted a condolence
Saturday, December 4, 2021
Ginny was mad my dad co signed for my brother's college loan? Isn't that too god damn bad, he never did anything else for us so wow... and she was mad about that? I had my teeth from my upper jaw developing horizontally instead of vertically sticking out of my mouth in my childhood and he never helped with the braces. He only maybe got me a birthday gift 3 times in my whole childhood after they divorced. He maybe saw his three orginal first kids maybe 8 times in years and years when we were growing up and never did anything for us when he should have been just as much responsible for Me and Lori and Larry as our mom was and he was NOT and Ginny was mad at any little thing he did do.
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LA GUISTI posted a condolence
Saturday, December 4, 2021
One last thing. It's funny how my father said when divorcing Ginny that my mom Barbara blackmailed him into co signing for my brother's college loan. Black mail? how? The fact that when he divorced my mom when I was six years old, than I and my siblings did not see him for 5 years except when my dad's mom Gigi took us in for two weeks when my mom was in the hospital when I was about 7. other than that, our father did not see me from age 6 and than comes to the town house in Oakville when I was around 12 and Allison was a baby and Ginny was just having Amy and constantly tried to kiss our mom and one time took us three for ice cream in 7 years.... oh wow.... than he would come around trying to bother our mom non stop to the point my mom would hide and tell us to tell my dad she went out with her friend... Our dad would have enough nerve to ask "is she out with a guy?" and maybe through my whole childhood from the time he divorced my mom till I was 18 I saw him maybe 10 times and he would come and give me a birthday gift three times in the years between age 6-18 , THREE TIMES? what was he a dad once in a blue moon when he felt like it? so this is why none of us bothered with our so called dad. ok. The last time I saw him we were living in West Hartford and I just turned 16 but no birthday gift, came to the house. and my brother was on the phone in his bedroom. The first thing he says to me is "where's your mother?" "I said she's working a second job at Thrift pack foods" and he walked over to the phone and opened up the phone book to call and got no answer because my mom was in the telemarketing room which was open after hours but not their office, he than walks to the door looking mad and didn't ask me how I was, how was school NOTHING, mad looking and left..... I did nothing to him, I was still a kid, of course he wasn't interested in visiting his daughter nooooo and Ginny believed all his lies over the years but she is no better breaking up a family
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LA Guisti posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 18, 2021
So Ginny says "he is now happy with me and my kids " to me when I was 11.... Not only was he only happy because he had a new car and her parents had money and he was living better because of money but he was not that happy, he'd come to the house looking miserable and tried to constantly kiss our mom and my sister saw him in Waterbury in the 80s with a young woman so he was not even all that happy with her either... He just cared about MONEY.
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LA Guisti posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 18, 2021
So when Ginny said to me when I was a child "your father is now happy with me and my kids" sure he was happy with Ginny, he had a new car her parents had money and as soon as Ginny's last resource of money ran out he was gone gone gone... Just like he was not happy with our mom because she did not have money... He made my mom work full time standing up all day cashiering and every Friday he would come to her job and take her pay check and leave her about 3 dollars and she was bleeding while pregnant with me and was forced to work full time standing up all day, than come home to two young kids and cook and clean... My dad said to my mom "you have to work full time, you are bleeding get rid of it, have an abortion" but you are going to work." as the doctors told her she has to stay off her feet and rest my dad said "no". and wanted to just have me aborted. .... So Ginny was a joke, he only cared about MONEY not her either. ....not any of his kids.
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LA Guisti posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 18, 2021
And my mom was able to buy that house in Oakville when her dad passed away and she got some money than my dad talks her into selling the house and moved to that shack on Yale Street in Waterbury, where Ginny then broke up a marriage... And Ginny's dad had money or parents... My dad made my mom work while pregnant with me and had two small children and he would come in on Fridays and take her pay from her, all her pay but a few bucks... at her job be right there on Fridays.... Ginny didn't realize the only reason he wasn't happy is because of MONEY.... and he used her until her parent's funds ran out... But her knowing our dad was married with kids, not one ounce of empathy or anything.
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Lynn G. . posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 18, 2021
And added on... I will never ever forget the day my mom sat in a chair in the kitchen at the kitchen table crying so heavily, I was about 6 and gave her a big hug and one of her tears went in my eyes.... Because of our father and Ginny....Our father talked my mom into selling a beautiful home in Oakville, to move to a shack of a house in Waterbury that needed a lot of work and than our father took off with Ginny and and abandoned all of us and my mom had to sell that house because of the repairs it needed and we went from apartment to apartment during my whole childhood. My mom was never the same after our father hurt our mom so badly and went off with Ginny. She was never the same and was working so many hours and depressed and stressed out .... she kept telling me as I got into my teens and early adult life "don't make the same mistake I did liking somebody because they are good looking, look where I am now" because our dad was not a bad looking guy in his earlier days. Ginny did not care she ruined a family and sure he would have cheated on my mom regardless, but this says what type of a person Ginny really was... and she was cheated on by him too
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LA Guisti posted a condolence
Sunday, August 25, 2019
And something else that plagued my mind for all these years. At the time my father was having a relationship with Ginny while still married to our mom and my mom was divorcing him right after he moved out to his mom's home while dating Ginny when I was 5 or 6. AT THAT SAME TIME somebody wearing a handkerchief over their face knocked on our door in the middle of the night, my sister woke me up as she looked through the blinds on the door and saw a guy with a handkerchief on his face. As my sister woke me up he appeared out side our bedroom window, I could see his shadow, he was trying to see in but strangely knew where my bed was cause he looked right at me and I went under the covers and hid and fell back to sleep. Till this day I believe it was our father. It is not rare for a man to murder his family to start fresh and not have to pay child support and alimony and have that "baggage" And one time he held a gun on my mom and kicked me in the back side when I screamed and cried when he was still living at home dating Ginny or messing around with Ginny.
when he came to the house once in a great while he'd have a angry look a lot, hardly came by and would be angry when our mom was not there or was hiding.
One time my mom went to the hospital when I was 6 and my dad was living at his mom's house and his mom took us for the two weeks our mom was in the hospital. Ginny would come around and tell me she was going to cut all my hair because I would put pieces of strands in my mouth. When I told my mom , my mom was so mad as she had no right to say that to me. And my cousin Terri was so mean "you're not our cousins anymore" Barbara was mean, and my dad didn't bother with us at all. All they did was bully us the two weeks.
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LA Guisti posted a condolence
Sunday, August 25, 2019
Correction from my last message. At 13 My buck teeth were so severe at 13 my top lip was ABOVE my teeth, my gums were purple because the air was hitting them. I couldn't breathe out of my nose and had a heavy hazzing breathing which kids were saying "you breathe funny" I could not close my mouth because my teeth were protruding. My father didn't help my mom with the braces because Ginny said no. Every day all day "ewwwww" in the halls at school and called ugly, bucky and beaver while my dad drove new cars with Ginny. And she wondered why we didn't bother with our father? where was he on our birthdays and Christmas year after year? We were kids. No where, popped in once in a great while with an attitude trying to kiss our mom. Since when should we go out of our way to see him when we were the children? and I hate him. I almost died at 13 while it took my mom forever to get the braces struggling than couldn't finish paying for them. Kids would NOT even let me talk to tell them to say " I am going to get braces and in two years I will look ok ", they'd yelled "don't talk to me" kids would stare and stare, i sat alone at lunches. Not only at school, kids would laugh and adults would stare when I went anywhere. . Only because my father could not help get braces sooner and help my mom with the payment it was a long wait for them. He never helped out with us kids and Ginny was the main reason.
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LA Guisti posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 6, 2019
I wanted to add onto my other message. It's not the fact my dad was a cheater in general even cheated on Ginny, it's the fact Ginny knew my dad was married with three kids when she started having a relationship with him. One time I was 11, one of the few times I saw my father growing up, and I said "daddy you're getting fat. " I was only a kid and I was use to seeing him skinny, it's not like I've seen him often. Ginny snickered in a vicious voice "that's because he's happy with me and my kids" Sure Ginny, he was so happy with you that he cheated on you too and use to try to bother my mom. Sure. More like your daddy's money. and after my mother chased after my father in court for child support , he only paid 15 dollars per child a month and even in the 70s and 80s you can't support kids on that money and my mom worked day and night trying to support us. Like I said, Karma got Ginny in the end. We had some difficult times like with my braces, I couldn't breathe out of my nose because my jaw was so narrow it affect my breathing in my nose and I couldn't r close my mouth because my upper teeth were protruding out of my mouth so severely and my jaw was narrow and long like a horse shoe with my upper lip over my teeth and was suicidal from being called bucky and beaver all day in school and ugly and hit and slammed all day every day while my mom struggled to get the braces for me and nobody cared while my mom struggled. He made us three kids, not just my mom alone and did not take responsibility and Ginny acted like" too bad" he's mine and my kids now.
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LA Guisti posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 6, 2019
This is not exactly a condolence but I should have said my peace to her before she died. When I was Five years old I saw her and my dad while my dad was married to my mom kissing in the woods in the back of our house. My mom caught him cheating and they divorced. Ginny broke up a family. Some Christian. And my father had three kids before he married Virginia who he did not bother with or take care of. When we needed something my father would say "I have to ask Ginny" when I was 13 years old I had such severe buck teeth that I couldn't even close my mouth, my dad would not help with the braces because Ginny said no. My mom struggled financially to get me braces while I was suicidal because of the bullying. My mom was such a wreck and stressed and suicidal at times trying to support three kids alone ALONE , Our father was not helping financially while Ginny would say "no" to financial help. I gleed with joy when Ginny got some karma in the late 90s when all my dad really loved her for that her family had MONEY when the money was gone so was my dad, Karma really reared it's ugly head on Ginny. ,My dad cheated on Ginny too, she was not special, just deluded for years, all those years he was married to her he cheated on her. My sister saw our father with a 18 year old Spanish girl kissing her in Waterbury in the 80s. My father would try to come to our home and kiss my mom all the time to the point my mom would hide when he knocked on the door and he would get mad and not bother with us kids because he couldn't bother my mom, all this bitch Ginny is, is a home wrecker and if her daughters don't like my message, how would they feel if this was done to them and their mom? She got karma big time in the end. and we were his kids FIRST and he never supported us or seen us much. disgusting people Bye
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Vicki Fluker posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 18, 2019
Alrhough I did not know Ginny very long, I knew how much she loved her family. A quiet,caring and gentle soul for the times I was in her presence. May God give these family members, comfort and peace during this difficult time. My prayer is that the memories abound from the lessons given by this grand woman if God. May God Bless you all and keep you in peaceful peace. 2rJPR
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Praying with your family Alison and Kahwai on the loss of your mum. May you know God's peace and comfort through this time.
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Gary and Denise Merrill posted a condolence
Friday, June 7, 2019
So sad to hear of Ginnys passing but as Christian's we know exactly where she is, at peace in Heaven with her Lord savior.
I was priveleged to do home projects and repairs for her in Thomaston, CT and both my wife and I got to know her well. At times I would bring my son to work at her house and she enjoyed his company. Denise took Ginny to lunch on occasion, would bake for her and we both spent time talking on the phone with her. Funny thing is if we forgot to call her she would call us tell us that "we forgot to call her!" I know she really missed Connecticut when she had to move but it was for her best. Where Ginny was staying, she liked eating dinner in her room alone as opposed to mixing with others, especially at UCONN womens basketball season, but that was Ginny. She would tell me about all of the people from Covenant Church who did things for her.....She was very appreciative! And last comment, Ginny would ask "have you talked to Pastor, how is he"....always just "Pastor"........
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